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  1. SaintOfSpinners

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    I wish peace for you and yours Maddie.
     
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    @hellointerloper

    But you haven't said anything about your family on SB for a while, why the hell would they be monitoring what you post online? That is creepy and weird. You are an adult are you not? You can do and say whatever the fuck you want!

    Sorry to hear about your troubles.
     
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    @hellointerloper

    Best thing for you really. Your family (please don't take offense) sound like a bunch of psychos. Getting away from them can only improve your mental state and will teach them to stop being overbearing and appareciate you for who you are (hopefully).
     
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    Why would your family care about what you post on here? That's nutty. Family can be so fucking frustrating. Haven't talked to mine in about 7 years and I am so much better for it. Then I have friends who have these great close friendly relationships with their family and it's just frustrating as well. Why must it be so hard? Fuck shitty family. @hellointerloper I wish you the best and I hope you find your way to the right situation without too much sacrifice. Toys are always replaceable, your sanity isn't.
     
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    Thank you so much for all your messages of support, I can't tell you how much it means to me. This has been one hell of a week. Nobody can hurt you like family can, you know?

    But yeah, just wanted to let everyone know that things are okay, at least for the time being.

    This weekend a family reconciliation of sorts occurred.
    My sister and I actually made peace, which was something I didn't know I needed as much as I did. We had been estranged from each other since April and I thought it would stay that way, to be honest. It turns out that there was a lot of stuff that was unsaid in our relationship, and once those things were discussed, we both realized there was a lot of misinterpretation of each other's actions. We decided to start over.
    I'm a lot less hopeful about the discussion I had with my parents, because they seem eager to just hug and not talk about it rather than actually discuss issues. These kind of "kiss and make up" kind of incidents have happened time and time again with shit hitting the fan shortly after.

    I also did find out that my social media is being monitored specifically because of my depression, which I can understand. Still annoying as hell though.

    We cancelled the emergency move. Still have to sell some toys for the bills though. The good news is we think this is the last treatment that our pup Bruiser will need. He's been through so much. (He contracted the Southern strain of drug-resistant heartworm so shortly before we adopted him from Tennessee, that he didn't show up as being positive until months after we had him up in CT. First treatment failed to clear him of the worms.)
     
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    Not really a fuck you but more of a fuck me..yes fuck my fucking self.
    Fuck me for not exercising on a regular basis and letting myself get out of shape. My stamina is shit and it fucking sucks. :?

    I'm done.
     
  7. Headhunter

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    Fuck the dumb ass ignorant customer I was helping today at work!

    Woman walks up to me asking me where i can find extract vanilla. I lead her to it. On the way there she says.

    "I must have passed it because i was just in that aisle."

    I reply

    "Yeah, but it happens so its ok."

    We get to the area where the extract vanilla is at and i show it to her. Her dumbass reply was this.

    "This is extract vanilla? Looks like some kind of Japanese shit!"

    The stupidity and ignorance at this comment is vastly fucking overwhelming for me. Im not even sure the dumbass could tell what American products even look like. It even triggered me lol. I than reply in what very limited basic knowledge i have of Japanese questioning her response calmly.

    "Nani?"

    She gives me a the most dumbfound shocked look ever. Her reply was a confused.

    "What?"

    I than reply harshly to her.

    "Baka"

    She than replies frustrated to me not knowing what to say.

    "Whatever"

    I than reply to her.

    "Thats right because i know Japanese and you don't. Have a good day now."

    She walks away clearly frustrated. Aggressive customer service for the win! But damn it was the most unwanted and stupidest ignorant shit iv ever heard from a customer in awhile lol. How the fuck did extract vanilla even lead up to this? I don't even know at this point.
     
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  8. Anti Social Andy

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    I (heart) Karma! :twisted:
     
  9. Anti Social Andy

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    Time for a new username! ;)
     
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    @Headhunter My grocery brother! Have you worked in the produce section? It's mind-blowing.
     
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    Fuck funerals!!!!! I've buried 3 of my good friends this year alone!!! Fuck heroin and fuck depression!!
     
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    That's rough, man. I think we all, as human beings, have no greater level of relation and emotional connection than loss. And I've always felt, in that regard, we're never alone. My condolences for your lost friends, and I hope those that chose to go by their own hand(s) found the peace they couldn't while they were here.
     
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    @xSuicide Squadx Thanks bud. Loss of loved ones is one of the hardest we as humans can experience. All we can do is remember the good times together. Thanks again.
     
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    Taking my daughter to school this morning I usually park where the busses enter. by the time im taking her busses have arrived and left already, there was a SUV in front of me and it pulled to the side with enough room for me behind so i followed... she proceeded to put her car in reverse even though she was parked straight and against the curb where she was. she seen i was behind her and put it in park. I got out and was getting my kid and her backpack. She decided to mouth off to me saying, That's not a parking (granted I was where there is a driveway to get equipment in the school etc, if need be, you'd have to open the gate for that. but here's the kicker, this area where the busses enter, no one is suppose to park there. there's multiple signs posted, I still do because the gate entry is right where my daughters classroom is. anyways I continued to get my daughter off through the gate and right after she mouthed off to me trying to put me in my place, I pointed at the sign and replied " look here honey, we all are not suppose to park here ". where my car is parked is no more against the rules than yours. she got pretty ticked off at that yet no response. and i was grinning while entering my car and leaving.
     
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    So a big fuck you goes out to my surgeon's method of dealing with what has become a nightmare before I start cancer treatment: a surgical infection from the lymph node removal.

    Yeah that's right. 9 days after surgery and I felt deathly ill last Monday night. Felt like the flu, was having the chills, go to put a sweater on and sure enough my incision wound which had previously been fine is bleeding. I woke up throughout the night in a pool of sweat, fevers, and my arm was swollen and hot. How this could have happened is beyond me- 9 days later when it was healing fine. My aunt, uncle, and mom take me to my oncologist appointment after trying to get in touch with my surgeon all morning. I could barely walk. Well guess what? Can't start treatments till I'm healed. Nurses there felt so bad for me and called my surgeon (in same hopsital network) themselves. At least my initial diagnosis is good: nodal lymphocyte predominant- no reed sternberg cells, highly treatable, barring anything seen in the coming petscan and cardiogram this week- so far just stage 2A.

    So afterwards I'm driven to King of Prussia to the office where my surgeon is working out of that day (Einstein is a huge network of hospitals and outpatient offices) who I have good repoire with decides shes going to drain it (I was in such agony and pain I almost passed out) tell me it was more of a blood clot than infection and them proceeds to pack it with gauze and keep it open. She wraps and outer bandage on it (this is Tuesday) and tells me to come see her on Friday. Well the thing was bleeding profusely by Friday and oozing everywhere- luckily for me right before my appointment. She looks at it- it smelled absolutely rank. and cleans it. Whoops the tape I used on Tuesday now has given you an allergic reaction an rash (with pus like sores) all around your arm (where the tape was). Great. what does she do? Cleans it and rips the packing gauze out (pain and agony again) and redresses it by packing gauze and this time covering it with a plastic sheet that looked like saran wrap!

    Get home 2 hours later this outside bandage falls off (doh it's my underarm what do you think will happen?). Luckily she gave me her number and I text her. She's like "Oh don't worry just cover the gauze so it's not exposed." My brother in law now applies some ridiculous sling around my neck and underarm using gauze but by morning it was filled with pus and stunk. So today by myself I've had to change the dressing three times. Ripping tape off on an already irrated skin 3 times. All I see is bloody pus like gauze sticking out of the wound. To make all this worse the surgeon changed my antibiotic from Keflex to Amox-Clav and my insurance will only let me get 20 at a time so every week now I'll have to call in a refill.

    Listen I get why surgeons would rather keep a wound open if there is a surgical infection, because they don't want the skin sealing in bacteria and germs BUT enough is fucking enough. I've been on antibiotics for almost a week which will take care of the inside stuff. I see her Monday and I'm going to say-no fucking more. You take this rank packing out and you seal my wound. I don't have time to sit here 4 times a day and self abuse myself trying to play field nurse in a battlefield. My skin is irratated, it hurts, I don't like a gaping wound that stinks and is soaking through bandages and getting on my clothes/sheets. I'm sick of feeling like I'm going to get sick, develop a fever or be bed- ridden. I don't like being holded up all day because I feel like the bubble boy who can't do anything for fear I'll infect this open wound. I don't like not being able to shower because I can't get it wet. And most of all until this is cleared up I can't start cancer treatment! Close it or your fired!

    You guys said be your own medical advocate. Well I am.
     
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    I worked in supermarkets when I was younger, like 10-12 years total, I feel your pain. Most of the general public are morons.

    I was a cashier, courtesy desk person, deli clerk, stock clerk.
     
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    This all makes sense now... grumpy :p
     
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    FUCK THIS HURRICANE!
     
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    SB you really outdid yourself with how nasty people can get over a toy.

    Just briefly, I'm broke and you're not if you can pay hundreds of dollars for a toy. It's a hobby and thus a market economy of rarity.

    I didn't think this was eBay, but so many of you did. I get that. The thing became a nightmare to deal with people (from Asia especially) were I was bending over to get them the thing. It didn't work out and then I end up being the bad guy for saving myself the trouble of dealing with your countries shitty customs and making ends meet by another month because some other rich person offered me the simpler solution.

    I've tried helping folk here and folk have helped me. It's when y'all get entitled to some plastic thing from some hype brand that I really, really see how people lose sight of this place.

    So yeah FU SB for making that nasty side come up in all of us.

    And this is not directed at anyone in particular. It's actually mostly for me, for also losing sight and trying to make things work.
     
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    Sorry to hear that man. I feel that you were more than generous, and could have taken this elsewhere for a nice cash-in. It sucks when people get burned for doing a nice thing.
     
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    We worked it out. Communication is key, but we certainly had to try and see eye to eye.

    I think we're just bummed about how easily these things can get the best of us. Live and learn. Everyone is as ok as they will be now.
     
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    Sorry to hear about all your respective woes, SB; things really are tough all over sometimes.

    @Headhunter/@noeleaser Customers, eh? Probably hasn't ever changed since the dawn of trade.

    @Herr Graves Very sorry for your losses. It is not something that ever gets any easier, and as Robert said, I think that basic emotion of loss is something we can all relate to, no matter our varied background.

    @Lixx Hope the infection clears up and they can get your wound sorted very soon. Unfortunately situations like this show you just how fragile and delicate the human body is, despite what one often thinks of the great advances in modern medicine.

    @hellointerloper Glad to hear that you were able to work things out Maddie, and that you won't have to go through the move now. Communication really is key, in all aspects of life. It's easy to forget, and simple misunderstandings can spiral out of control, I think we all have to try and remind ourselves of that from time to time. In dealing with lots of different people, particularly those who are coming from a different place than you might be, you really need to try and listen and see things from their point of view as well. [Not directed at you I mean, general advice for everyone]. It certainly isn't always easy, but it might be surprising how many of the world's issues could be [move closer to being] resolved by simple acts of open dialogue and understanding.
     
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